10 Autumn Evenings Without Screens: Simple Ways to Slow Down and Enjoy the Season

There is something about an autumn evening that makes me want to come
home. Not simply arrive back at the house, but properly come home.
Close the door. Put on a lamp. Make something warm. Change into
something comfortable. Let the day begin to soften around the edges.

As the evenings grow darker, our homes start to feel different. The
windows become black mirrors earlier. Lamps and candles take over from
daylight. Dinner shifts back towards warmer, more comforting food. We
reach for blankets again. The kettle seems to be permanently on.

And yet it is remarkably easy to miss all of that. We sit down for five
minutes with our phones. We check one thing. We scroll. Someone else is
watching something in another room. Another person is on a laptop.
Somebody is messaging friends. The television is on, even though nobody
is particularly watching it.

And suddenly it is bedtime. There is nothing inherently wrong with any
of this. I love a good television series. A family film night can be one
of the loveliest ways to spend an autumn evening. Our phones connect us
with people we care about. Sometimes, after a long day, watching
something completely undemanding is exactly what we need.

This isn’t an argument for throwing our phones in a drawer every evening
and embarking on a worthy programme of wholesome autumn activities. It
is simply an invitation to notice when screens have become the default
rather than the choice. Because every now and again, it can feel
surprisingly good to decide:

Tonight, I’d quite like the evening back.

Not to make it productive. Not to fill it with another list of things we
should be doing. Just to see what might happen if we leave a little more
space in it. Here are ten simple ways to spend an autumn evening without
screens — whether you have the whole evening free or only half an hour
before bed.

1. Make Something Warm and Sit Down to Enjoy It

Let’s begin with the easiest one. Make something lovely to drink. Tea.
Coffee. Hot chocolate. Something warm with lemon. Whatever you actually
enjoy. But rather than carrying it around while doing three other
things, sit down with it. That’s the important bit.

Choose the comfortable chair. Turn on the lamp. Wrap yourself in a
blanket if it’s cold enough. Look out the window. Talk to whoever
happens to be there. Or enjoy ten minutes entirely by yourself. We are
very good at making small pleasures incidental to everything else we’re
doing.

Sometimes it’s lovely to let the small pleasure be the thing you’re
doing. If you have half an hour, wonderful. If you have ten minutes,
that counts too.

2. Take a Short Evening Walk

Autumn evenings have a particular atmosphere that we miss if we’re
always indoors by the time darkness begins to fall. Go for a short walk
as the light changes. It doesn’t have to be long or particularly scenic.
Walk around your neighbourhood. Take the dog. Walk to the end of the
road and back. Go around the block after dinner.

Notice the temperature dropping. Look at the changing sky. Watch
streetlights flicker on and lamps begin appearing in windows. Listen to
the sounds of people arriving home. Perhaps there’s the smell of
woodsmoke in the air or damp leaves beneath your feet. We often think of
autumn walking as something to do on a beautiful weekend afternoon, but
a fifteen-minute evening walk can be every bit as atmospheric.

And coming home afterwards somehow feels even better. If you enjoy this
kind of seasonal noticing, you might also like my 10 Autumn Walk Ideas
(and What to Notice on Each) and the free Autumn Walk & Notice
Printable Set that accompanies it.

3. Read Something Simply Because You Want To

Not something educational. Not something you feel you should read. Not
something that will make you a better, more informed, more productive
human being. Just something you want to read. A novel you can’t wait to
get back to. A familiar book you’ve read before.

A magazine. Poetry. A cookbook. A stack of library books you chose
purely because the covers appealed to you. Reading is one of those
things many of us say we don’t have time for while simultaneously losing
surprisingly large amounts of time to our phones. You don’t need to
commit to reading for an hour every evening.

Read ten pages. Read one chapter. Go to bed twenty minutes earlier and
read there. There is something wonderfully old-fashioned about an autumn
evening, a lamp, a warm drink and a book. And sometimes the obvious
pleasures are obvious because they’re genuinely lovely.

4. Play Cards or a Game at the Table

This one can take a little persuasion in some households. Particularly
if teenagers are involved. But once everyone actually sits down, it can
be surprisingly good fun. Cards are perfect because they require almost
no preparation. A board game works too. A jigsaw left somewhere everyone
can wander over and contribute to can become an accidental family
activity over several evenings.

And nobody needs to announce:

WE ARE HAVING QUALITY FAMILY TIME NOW.

That tends to remove approximately 87% of the fun immediately. Put
something on the table. Ask if anyone fancies a game. Make snacks. See
what happens. Sometimes people will join you. Sometimes they won’t.
That’s okay too. An off-screen evening doesn’t need the entire household
to participate in order to count.

5. Bake Something Simple

Autumn is the season when I begin wanting to bake again simply because
having the oven on feels nice. This doesn’t need to become an elaborate
baking project. Make something you already know how to make. Apple
crumble. Scones. Biscuits. A traybake. Muffins. Something involving
cinnamon if that’s your thing.

There is something very grounding about baking in the evening because it
occupies both your hands and your attention without requiring enormous
mental effort. Measure. Mix. Chop. Stir. Wait. And then there is
something lovely to eat at the end of it. If somebody else is around,
ask them to join you. Baking beside a child or teenager can often create
the kind of conversation that doesn’t happen when you’re sitting
opposite each other deliberately trying to talk.

And if nobody wants to help? Put some music on and enjoy having the
kitchen to yourself.

6. Make or Mend Something

This connects beautifully with something I wrote about recently in 10
Forgotten Autumn Pleasures Worth Bringing Back. We have become very
accustomed to buying our entertainment. Sometimes it feels good to make
something instead. Knit. Crochet. Draw. Paint.

Journal. Sew on the button you’ve been meaning to replace. Mend the
small tear in something you love. Arrange photographs in an album.
Write. Make a card for somebody. Start something without needing to know
whether you’ll ever become particularly good at it. Creativity doesn’t
have to result in anything impressive.

Nobody needs to see it. It doesn’t need to become content, a side
business or another skill to master. You are allowed to make something
badly because you enjoyed the process of making it. That may be one of
the most underrated forms of relaxation we have.

7. Put Music On — and Actually Listen to It

Music is often playing somewhere in the background of our lives. While
we’re driving. Cooking. Cleaning. Working. But when was the last time
you put music on specifically to listen to it? Choose an album. Make an
autumn playlist. Put on something you loved twenty years ago and
discover that you still know every word.

Ask everyone in the house to choose a song. Dance in the kitchen if the
mood takes you. Or sit somewhere comfortable and do absolutely nothing
else. There is a lovely difference between having music in the
background and allowing music to become the evening’s entertainment.

And yes, technically you may need to touch a screen for thirty seconds
to put the music on. We’re not going to be ridiculous about this. The
point isn’t achieving a perfect score in Screen-Free Evening. The point
is using technology deliberately rather than disappearing into it.

8. Write Something by Hand

You don’t need to be somebody who “journals.” Take a notebook and write
down what’s on your mind. Write a letter. Make a list of things you’re
looking forward to. Record something funny that happened today. Write
three sentences about this particular autumn. Plan something you’re
excited about.

Write a postcard to somebody. Or simply put pen to paper and see what
comes out. Handwriting forces us to move at a different pace from
typing. We can’t open another tab halfway through a sentence. There are
no notifications appearing in the margin. There is simply the page and
whatever we’re thinking.

If you already use any of the journaling pages or seasonal reflection
printables from the blog, an off-screen evening is a lovely time to pull
one out. But an ordinary notebook works perfectly well. The important
part is the pause.

9. Have an Evening That Is About Connection

Sometimes we don’t need an activity at all. We need each other. Sit at
the table a little longer after dinner. Call somebody you’ve been
meaning to call. Invite a friend over for tea without turning it into a
dinner party. Ask your teenager if they fancy coming on a walk.

Play cards. Cook together. Sit beside someone while they do whatever
they’re doing. Tell an old family story. Ask a question and actually
listen to the answer. Connection doesn’t always look like deep
conversation. Very often it is built in the completely ordinary moments
when people happen to be together without too many competing demands on
their attention.

This is one of the things I love about some of the older autumn
pleasures we’ve been exploring. Before every spare moment could be
individually filled, people simply spent more time in the same room. We
don’t need to recreate another era. But perhaps we can borrow that one
small thing from it occasionally.

10. Do Almost Nothing

This might be the most difficult suggestion on the entire list. Don’t
replace your screen with a worthy activity. Don’t decide that because
you’re not watching television or scrolling your phone, you should
finally reorganise the cupboard. Don’t catch up on emails.

Don’t start a project. Don’t optimise the evening. Do less. Take a bath.
Sit beside the fire. Make tea. Stretch. Look through an old photo album.
Sit in the garden for ten minutes. Go to bed early with a book. Talk.
Listen to music. Stare out the window. Let yourself be bored for five
minutes and see what your mind does when you stop immediately providing
it with something to consume.

Not every empty space needs to be filled. Perhaps one of the greatest
luxuries of an autumn evening is allowing some of it to remain empty.

This Isn’t About Giving Up Screens

I think this matters enough to say explicitly. A screen-free evening is
not morally superior to an evening spent watching television. Sometimes
curling up together with a film is exactly the evening we want.
Sometimes everybody is exhausted and a familiar series is perfect.

Sometimes our phone is how we talk to somebody we love. Sometimes a
teenager wants to disappear upstairs and chat with friends, and that
connection matters too. This isn’t about deciding that screens are bad
and wholesome family activities are good. Real life is considerably more
nuanced than that.

It’s about choice. There is a difference between: I’m going to
watch this because I really want to. and I sat down, picked up my
phone and somehow an hour disappeared. There is a difference between
choosing a film together and everybody automatically retreating to
separate screens because that’s what happens every evening.

Every now and again, we can interrupt the default. Not forever. Just for
tonight. And ask:

What would I actually enjoy doing with this evening?

Your Free An Autumn Evening Off-Screen Printable

I’ve created a brand-new printable to accompany this post, and I think
this might be one of my favourite autumn pages we’ve made. An Autumn
Evening Off-Screen is designed almost like a little evening menu. Not
a checklist. Not a challenge. And definitely not ten more things you
need to squeeze into your day.

Instead, you can simply choose what appeals to you.

Choose Something Cosy

Make a warm drink. Find a blanket. Light a candle. Sit somewhere
comfortable. Make the room feel warm and welcoming.

Choose Something Creative

Bake. Draw. Journal. Knit. Mend something. Write. Play music. Make
something simply because you enjoy making it.

Choose Something Connecting

Play cards. Cook together. Take a walk. Call somebody. Tell stories. Sit
around the table a little longer.

Choose Something Restful

Read. Take a bath. Stretch. Listen to music. Go to bed early. Sit
quietly. Do less. You don’t have to choose one from every section. You
don’t actually have to choose anything. They’re simply possibilities for
those evenings when you find yourself thinking, I’d really like to put
my phone away, but what on earth am I going to do instead?

And then there is space to create your own little evening:

Tonight I’m putting away…

Something I’d like to do…

Something lovely to eat or drink…

Someone I’d like to spend time with…

How I’d like this evening to feel…

And perhaps that final question is the one that matters most. Not:

What should I accomplish tonight?

But:

How would I like this evening to feel?

DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE AN AUTUMN EVENING OFF-SCREEN PRINTABLE →

You Might Already Have Everything You Need

One of the reasons I wanted to create this printable as a simple menu
rather than a long activity list is because an off-screen evening
shouldn’t require us to buy anything. You probably already have what you
need. A book. A pack of cards. A notebook. Ingredients for something
simple.

A pair of walking shoes. Music. A comfortable chair. Somebody to talk
to. Or perhaps simply a little time. This connects so beautifully with
10 Forgotten Autumn Pleasures Worth Bringing Back because many of
those forgotten pleasures have the same thing in common.

They’re remarkably ordinary. Writing a letter. Making something. Telling
stories. Mending. Cooking. Walking. Listening. Sitting. Perhaps we don’t
always need new ways to entertain ourselves. Sometimes we need to
remember the old ones.

Creating an Off-Screen Evening With Teenagers

I think this deserves its own little section because family activities
change as children get older. You cannot manufacture cosy family
togetherness. And trying too hard is generally the quickest way to
ensure nobody wants anything to do with it. An off-screen evening with
teenagers doesn’t need to mean announcing at 6 p.m. that all devices are
being confiscated and everyone will now enjoy a wholesome evening
together.

That would probably go down about as well as you’d expect. Instead, make
the alternative appealing. Bake something they like. Ask if anyone wants
to play cards. Order or make something nice to eat. Suggest a walk. Put
music on. Light the fire. Start a game without demanding everyone joins.

Ask them to choose what you’re baking. Invite rather than insist. And
accept that sometimes they won’t be interested. That’s okay. Family
connection doesn’t have to happen according to a schedule. Sometimes the
loveliest moments happen because we’ve created a little space in which
they can happen.

As we move closer to October, you might also enjoy 25 Halloween
Activities for Families With Teens, with lots of ideas for enjoying
the season together without treating teenagers as though they’re still
small children.

A Simple Autumn Evening Might Look Like…

Perhaps you arrive home tired. Dinner is nothing elaborate. Afterwards,
instead of immediately sitting down with your phone, you put it
somewhere else for a while. You make tea. Somebody else makes hot
chocolate. A lamp is on in the corner. One person is reading.

Somebody is doing homework at the table. The dog is asleep. Maybe music
is playing. Someone wanders into the kitchen and you end up talking for
twenty minutes. Later you read a few pages of your book. Nothing
particularly memorable happens. There is no beautifully curated seasonal
activity.

Nobody completes an autumn bucket list. It’s just an evening at home.
And yet sometimes those are exactly the evenings we need.

Autumn Doesn’t Need to Be Filled

There can be a strange pressure around seasonal living. Once we start
paying attention to a season, suddenly there are dozens of things we’re
apparently supposed to do with it. Places to visit. Recipes to make.
Decorations to put up. Activities to complete. Traditions to create.

Photographs to take. And before long, enjoying autumn becomes another
project. That isn’t what I want any of the seasonal ideas I share here
to become. You don’t need to maximise autumn. You don’t need to make
every evening cosy. You don’t need to turn off your phone every night.

You certainly don’t need to work your way through all ten ideas in this
article. Maybe you try one. Perhaps tonight you leave your phone in
another room and read for twenty minutes. Maybe you go for a walk after
dinner. Perhaps you make apple crumble. Maybe you play cards.

Or perhaps you make a cup of tea, turn on the lamp and sit down. That
can be enough. Because sometimes slowing down isn’t about adding
something lovely to our lives. Sometimes it’s simply about leaving
enough space to notice the lovely things that are already there.

More Autumn Inspiration

If you’d like to continue exploring the slower, more ordinary side of
autumn, you might also enjoy:

10 Forgotten Autumn Pleasures Worth Bringing Back

Rediscover simple seasonal pleasures that may have become crowded out by
modern life — from pressing leaves and writing letters to mending,
preserving and letting one day of the week feel different.

READ 10 FORGOTTEN AUTUMN PLEASURES →

10 Autumn Walk Ideas (and What to Notice on Each)

Woodland, coast, hedgerows, evening walks and even the familiar route
around your own neighbourhood — plus our free Autumn Walk & Notice
printable set.

EXPLORE 10 AUTUMN WALK IDEAS →

50 Simple Autumn Traditions for Families to Try

A collection of realistic seasonal traditions to dip into throughout
autumn, whether you’re enjoying the season with younger children,
teenagers or simply creating traditions of your own.

EXPLORE 50 SIMPLE AUTUMN TRADITIONS →

Explore the Complete Autumn Printables Collection

You’ll find our seasonal planners, reflection pages, autumn activities,
nature printables, journaling pages and lots more in the complete free
autumn collection.

EXPLORE ALL FREE AUTUMN PRINTABLES →

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Perhaps that’s the invitation for this autumn. Not to declare war on our
screens. Not to impose elaborate rules. Not to fill every dark evening
with meaningful activities. Just occasionally to notice when we’ve
stopped choosing how we’re spending our time. And every now and again,
put the phone somewhere else.

Turn on the lamp. Make something warm. Pick up the book. Ask someone if
they fancy a game. Step outside for ten minutes. Make something. Talk.
Rest. Or do nothing much at all.

The evening doesn’t need to be filled to have been well spent.

Chat soon

Ciara x

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