How to Have a Slow and Simple Christmas
Christmas doesn’t have to be chaotic.
It doesn’t have to be a mad rush of shopping and social events and late nights and glitter everywhere (unless you want it to be!). Sometimes, the most beautiful Christmas is the quiet one. The one that unfolds slowly. Thoughtfully. A little more gently.
If you’re craving a more meaningful festive season this year—less pressure, more presence—this post is for you.
Here’s how to have a slow and simple Christmas—one that’s cozy, calm, and truly feels like Christmas.
🕯 1. Set the Tone Early
Instead of diving straight into the noise of Christmas, ease into it. Light a candle on the first dark evening of November. Play one gentle carol. Let your season begin softly.
🎁 2. Choose Thoughtful, Fewer Gifts
Focus on fewer, more meaningful presents. Choose things that will truly be loved and used—or even opt for homemade, secondhand, or experience-based gifts. A simple handwritten card can mean more than anything.
📅 3. Say No to the Overwhelm
It’s okay not to go to every event, every night out, every activity. Protect your evenings. Guard your rest. Slow Christmas means being intentional with your time.
🍽 4. Bring Back the Long Dinner
One meal. Everyone home. Phones away. Candlelight. A shared dessert. Even once or twice during December, this kind of dinner can become your new tradition.
🌟 5. Decorate Slowly and Simply
There’s no need for “perfect.” Bring down one box at a time. Use what you already have. Add natural touches—greenery, pinecones, dried oranges, a sprig of holly in a jam jar.
🧣 6. Embrace Old-Fashioned Traditions
Make a paper chain. Wrap gifts in brown paper and twine. Hang homemade stars or popcorn garlands. Bake with your children or teens. Listen to a carol service on the radio.
📖 7. Create Quiet Moments Each Day
A cup of tea beside the Christmas tree. A short journal entry. A walk at dusk. These small pauses are what anchor the season and help you stay present.
✉️ 8. Send a Few Real Cards
You don’t need to send 100—but maybe you send five. With a note. A photo. A warm memory. It means more than a WhatsApp message.
🧺 9. Keep Your Home Cozy, Not Cluttered
Clear a little space before Christmas comes. A tidy corner, a soft blanket, a candle glowing. Slow doesn’t mean bare—but it does mean intentional.
🎶 10. Build a Calm Christmas Soundtrack
Create a playlist of gentle carols, acoustic versions of your favourites, or classical pieces. Let music become part of the atmosphere instead of a distraction.
🍲 11. Cook Simply, Eat Well
Choose a few go-to festive meals and rotate them. A warm stew, a festive breakfast, a plate of Christmas Eve sandwiches with candles lit. Keep it lovely, not labour-intensive.
🧘 12. Let There Be Rest
Early nights. No-pressure days. A nap. A lie-in. Blank calendar days. Slow Christmas means letting yourself rest when the world is telling you to do more.
❤️ Final Thought
You don’t need to do everything to make it magical.
You just need to be present for the little things that matter.
A slow and simple Christmas doesn’t mean less joy—it means deeper joy. Less noise, more meaning. Less pressure, more peace. And more space for you to actually feel the wonder of the season.
Let it be calm. Let it be slow. Let it be Christmas.
Chat soon,
Ciara x


